2009 Word-of-the-Year: ABUNDANCE

Written by Christine Kane

GladDoggettNote: December is Word-of-the-Year Month at Christine’s Blog. As we roll into another New Year, each day will feature a new guest author who chose one word as a way of setting intention for her whole year. Today’s guest is Glad Doggett. More about Glad below.

The day I found Christine Kane’s website, I was in the midst of a deep funk, jobless, and completely lost. It was a dark place and I hope to never visit it again.

Finding Christine’s site and the wisdom there was like being lost in a cave and finally finding a flashlight. It helped me see things differently and gave me the confidence to find my way out of the darkness.

I don’t remember how I got there, but the day I stumbled on her site I devoured every morsel of advice I could find. I was like a starving person enjoying a long awaited meal. I didn’t realize that I was looking for guidance until I found it on her website.

On that first day, I wasn’t ready yet for huge leaps and big transformations. I could barely get out of bed. But, one of her suggestions made an impression on me. I found it in the article about choosing one word for the New Year, instead of making a list of resolutions that disappears by February.

“One word,” I said. “Surely, even I can handle one word.”

That day, I chose the word Abundance. At the time, it was perfect for so many reasons. I was stuck in a rut and all I could see was what my life lacked.

I unexpectedly left a job I hated, and we became a one-income family. I had no job prospects, and this lead to us having to deplete our life’s savings. In spite of the huge tax penalty that we knew would come later, we felt we had no other choice. My husband and I were stressed, and I felt responsible. I cried a lot back then.

But, every time I felt overwhelmed, I would remind myself to focus on the abundance in my life. It was hard to see any abundance at first. But slowly, I started realizing that my wealth had little to do with money. I realized that I have a supportive husband who I love; I have two children I adore; I have a nice home, a reliable car; an education, my health and a very good life.

I began to see that money can’t buy the things that really matter to me.

I wrote in my journal every day about the small things that filled my life with abundance. I started feeling grateful and saying so every chance I got.

One day, out of the blue, I woke up, and even though I was in the same circumstances as before, I realized that I was happy, calm, and stress-free. It was liberating.

By noticing the abundance in my life, I planted a seed that continued to grow. It literally changed my life.

Small amounts of money started showing up unexpectedly. My husband and I started whispering an affirmation every time we’d receive extra cash. We would say: “There is always enough money. It’s as abundant as the leaves on the trees.” Even pennies on the ground deserved our acknowledgment.

I found a job, and we’ve since slowly started rebuilding our savings. Even though it was so hard in the beginning, today I can honestly say that I feel happier than I’ve ever been.

Abundance helped me decide to take my personal growth more seriously, and I invested in myself. I recently attended Christine’s Wide Awake Weekend, and have started the Uplevel Your Life Mastery Program.

This short note cannot adequately describe the changes that blossomed in me this year — inside and out.

And it all started with one word.

In 2010, it is my intention to become clearer about who I am. I want to live authentically, and enthusiastically do what I love. I intend to share my passion with the world.

My word for 2010 is Clarity.

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Glad Doggett is a part-time instructor and writer, and currently lives in Clarksville, Tennessee. She intends to become a certified life coach and help others find their way out their own dark caves. She shares her transformative journey on her blog, www.airynothings.com.

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Lance December 17, 2009 at 7:17 am

Hi Glad,
Your story here is one that is very much filled with abundance. And it’s not always about the money – abundance takes so many forms, as I can tell you know deeply. Getting to that place where you found peace and happiness…what a great place to be – and one that money can’t buy. Here’s to 2010 being filled with much clarity for you as you go forth…

Laure December 17, 2009 at 8:07 am

I love your words “slowly, I started realizing that my wealth had little to do with money”!

I soooo relate to that statement. That truth is so important to not only “learn” but to continually be aware of as we move forward in our lives. Thank you so much for sharing such an uplifting story!

Angiel December 17, 2009 at 12:56 pm

Regardless of time or place, one word keeps me going when nothing else does: “BE”.

It is the most powerful (yet peaceful) word I know.

Lisa December 17, 2009 at 1:33 pm

Hiya Glad!

Your post was very inspiring to me this morning… and so rich with possibility! I am so happy to have met you at the Wide Awake Weekend, and I look forward to seeing where 2010 brings you as you begin to share your passion!

alisha December 17, 2009 at 3:35 pm

lovely. i love the choice for 2010.

Stacey December 17, 2009 at 3:37 pm

Hi Glad! I loved reading your essay! I remember connecting with you last year around the word of the year and it is delightful to see how you grew into abundance and learned all its many meanings. Thanks so much for sharing your insights with us here and all the best to you in 2010. I can’t wait to hear how you grow with clarity!

Sam December 17, 2009 at 9:24 pm

Hi Glad,

Your story really hit home with me and I can’t wait to share it with my husband when he gets home tonight. He may very possibly lose his job soon, and I see him in a very dark place. Your story is his beacon. We, too have much to be grateful for, and need to constantly remind ourselves of the abundance surrounding us! Thank you from the bottom of my heart, and I am glad you found your way out of the cave!
love,
Sam

pati December 17, 2009 at 11:20 pm

Dear Glad,

Thank you for sharing and showing your path. You did great! Pati

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