Comments on: You Teach People How to Treat You

By: maureen

maureen — Mon, 08 Mar 2010 05:38:39 +0000

Thank you for this posting. I very much needed it today.

By: Ann

Ann — Wed, 13 Jan 2010 19:00:25 +0000

How do you take this risk when it is with your own 20 year old son?

By: Cody

Cody — Wed, 16 Dec 2009 08:01:46 +0000

Christine,
Thank you so much for the insight. I am so happy that you threw in a little of, “The Law Of Attraction” in there as well. I am an avid believer in the Secret and here lately I have been attracting all this drama to me. I sat down tonight and just thought back through the last couple of weeks and it dawned on me that I do allow people to treat me the way that they do. And your comment about the less emotions you put into something the better the outcome is the best piece of advice I have heard in a long time. I will have to write that one down, lol. Again thank you and have a very Merry Christmas and a rockin New Year. God Bless.

By: Kat

Kat — Mon, 07 Dec 2009 19:18:38 +0000

Hello Christine,

This is the first time I have read your blog. Your words are inspiring and empowering. I acknowledge your generosity, leadership and stand for people having the life that they love.

I am in a training and development program currently that teaches similar practices to what you wrote. Have you ever heard of Landmark Education? Their committment in the world is to listen for what matters to people and give them access to acheiving those important matters.

Let me know if you are interested in knowing more.

Take Care.

By: mk

mk — Tue, 28 Jul 2009 21:25:02 +0000

you know what i like what he / she said cause like that is how i feel i should be treated and how should every body treat me
and i just say how i would like to get treated and what are the stuff that i like and i don’t in this case you will be clear in evry thing

By: Tehfeen

Tehfeen — Mon, 13 Apr 2009 13:33:01 +0000

Wonderfull insight, u got me out of the guilt ride i had for 2 years iwas pained and didnt know i myself was the cause of it.

thanks a lot but i need to communicate to u deeply on my problem.

By: m

Thu, 26 Jun 2008 08:50:17 +0000

Glad to find this post again – I’ve just had a very difficult situation with a friend. But its empowering to realise that I will not bend over backwards just too smooth things over and look after everybody. I’ve turned a corner !

By: Peggy

Peggy — Thu, 27 Dec 2007 05:02:05 +0000

You said:
“The biggest risk involved in teaching people how to treat you is the risk that some of them might go away. Some friends might not call you anymore. Some clients might leave. In my situation, I might simply not get the performance date. You have to be willing to surrender those things that aren’t in alignment with how you want to be treated. They necessarily must go away. And the test is to let them.”

That is where I am right now. My husband is helping me and encouraging me. I have to let a very close person go if they chose to treat me as they have been. It IS very scarey.

By: Katherine

Katherine — Thu, 11 Oct 2007 18:41:32 +0000

Great words of wisdom and particularly helpful today. But I had to just write that you’ve got a great web guy! I know a few good fathers like the one who has great talks with his 9 year old, but I don’t know even one web guy…and one who is “life” smart as well as computer smart…and funny. Yeah for Christine’s web guy!!! I don’t know, are they ALL like that?

By: Working at Home on the Internet

Working at Home on the Internet — Thu, 05 Jul 2007 20:57:59 +0000

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