Yesterday, I overheard a conversation between several people about the disasters in Japan. One of the women said: “I feel so helpless.”
Understandable, of course. But not true. Sure, it’s pretty unlikely that she can fly off to Japan tomorrow and begin clean up on her own. But a disaster like this can provide other ways to deepen your commitment to service and healing on a planetary level.
I believe many people look at “service” in the same way they look at “courage.” It has to be big, heroic and eventful. Not even.
Service, much like courage, often comes down to your everyday “hey, no one even noticed that” choices. Waiting for the BIG moments is convenient because they rarely come!
In fact, many of my biggest moments of courage – of saying yes, stepping up, choosing not to listen to the negative voices – are often quiet and sometimes even lonely. Ditto with service. Service is HOW you live.
And as so many visionaries have stated in some way or another: A healthy you is the best service you can give to heal this planet.
This means that if you want to heal the planet, then there’s some GIVE and there’s some TAKE.
Let’s start with the GIVE’s:
GIVE your passion, your enthusiasm, and your talent.
Your passion speaks to you through your joy, your heart and your body. When you love doing something, that’s your passion, that’s the spark that feeds you. It’s what you were meant to be doing. People want to be around you when you’re in this high level of energy. Find a way to do it more, to infuse your life with it, and tap into it regularly.
GIVE up complaining, whining, blaming, gossip, and excuses.
Mind you, this is not about being a nice person. It’s not about being noble. It’s not even about loving your neighbor as yourself.
It’s about being selfish (in a good way!).
Here’s the deal: Your attention is way too powerful and creative to waste on splattering it all over the place with unproductive activity. Honor the power of your attention by experiencing the space that is created when you don’t fill it with negativity and addictive behaviors. This alone will change your world instantly.
GIVE yourself support.
When we build something new or start a new path or idea, we often expect ourselves to go it alone. And then we wonder why we couldn’t “pull it off.” It is not “weak” to ask for or invest in support. As far as I can tell, athletes are the only ones who have it right from the start. Their system is set up with coaches and team support from day one. We all need that level of support from mentors and teammates. Find a way to get support in creating anything from new higher-level mindsets to a business based in your purpose and passion. If you’re going to heal the planet, you need to keep on top of your own health as well! You are not meant to do this alone!
Your life situation can change on a dime. Be grateful for everything in it right now. Wake up in the morning and think on your blessings until tears form in your eyes. Because THAT is how blessed you are to have this amazing moment.
GIVE money.
Does anyone agree with me that it’s kinda selfish to give money because it feels so freakin’ great? :-) Even though this is a powerful way of serving, I’m never fooled into thinking that I’m only serving the recipient. I love love love recognizing my own abundance by giving it away.
If you want to give money instantly to help the people in Japan, click here.
Now, let’s talk about the TAKES…
TAKE responsibility.
If there’s one key difference between people who succeed in a deep and lasting way, and those who don’t – it’s the element of personal responsibility. This means you take responsibility (not blame!) for your results, your actions, your inactions, your income, your outcomes, your health, your wealth, and your life circumstances.
As long as you see yourself as a victim of anything or anyone, you will remain in a place of powerlessness. Again, this is not about blame. This is about choice. The choice to call your power back where it belongs.
TAKE stock.
One of the indirect results of any disaster is that some people make it an opportunity to review their life situation. Often, you hear stories about people who suddenly recognized that life was too short to live so unhappily – choosing to quit jobs, to move out of the city, reassess their friendships.
You don’t have to wait until things reach a critical point before you take stock of your life. Make it a habit to regularly sit down, be with yourself and ask yourself what you want, if you are happy with how you spend your time, if your relationships are strong or just a place to gossip. Go on a retreat, take a weekend to write in your journal and read inspiring books. Step away from your life in order to look at it more deeply. To paraphrase Michael Gerber: “Work ON your life, not just IN it.”
TAKE it off.
What are you still settling for in your life, in your surroundings, in your schedule? What’s draining you? What’s not a “hell yes?”
Be ruthless in answering these questions. And then, be ruthless in letting go. Take it off and feel the space that’s created from not settling for excess maybe’s in your life. Make your life one big YES – and live from that place.
TAKE chances.
People who don’t succeed are the ones who wait until they get it perfectly first. They wait until they are sure that no one will judge them. They wait until they’re sure they won’t fail. Which boils down to this: They wait.
Imperfect Action is the way to go. In fact, when you’re about to try something new, insist that you do it badly!
The experience of taking risks and facing fears is the ultimate healer for all kinds of emotional dis-eases.
TAKE it in.
In my Platinum Mastermind, we applaud each other. When one woman steps up for her time in front of the group, we cheer for her. We hoot, we woot, we clap like crazy. Her job is just to stand there and take it in. To receive.
Why do I insist that we do this?
Because being able to receive is crucial to success in anything. It is also crucial to service. We need to acknowledge our successes, celebrate our milestones, say “thank you,” charge what we are worth, and breathe in our blessings. Otherwise, we run on fumes, reaching for fuel from unhealthy sources.
Your happiness and thriving is a key element of the healing of this planet. If you place yourself at the bottom of the priority list, well, girlfriend, you’re not living in service, you’re living as a servant. Very different energies. Learn to TAKE IN the gifts and the gratitudes of this precious moment and let people celebrate you for the powerful being that you are.
TAKE a moment.
Prayer is powerful. It works. Your energy and your intention can indeed heal the planet.
Take a moment right now and sit quietly. Call upon the light that is you and smile as it comes into your awareness. For one full minute, send that light to the people in Japan. Surround them with love and healing energy, knowing that we are all connected. Schedule moments throughout the day to repeat this practice. It will heal the planet much more effectively than chaining yourself to the media images minute by minute.
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Thank you C, really. As I was putting my finishing touches to my newsletter this morning, I had a heavy heart knowing that I had to say something about the Japan disaster, and not knowing how to turn it into a positive note. With that said, I am going to just point my readers to this article. You nailed it. As per normal.
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Love this Christine and thank you for this one – “Otherwise, we run on fumes, reaching for fuel from unhealthy sources.” It’s so true! Great way of putting it.
It gets hard to give if you don’t take some in
MWAH!
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Just what I needed to hear this afternoon! Brilliant post. Thank you!
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I stopped regularly watching news, reading news, or listening to news on September 11. My over-sensitive artist soul could not take any more. It was the best decision I think I’ve ever made. If something serious happens, I’m told by friends or family or strangers and I can choose to look for news online if I wish. (I found out about the Japan earthquake a few hours after it happened from someone at the hair salon.)
I live my life in the knowledge that horrible, unspeakable things happen in this world but I do not allow the images and words into my mind and heart on a daily basis.
I believe that without the anxiety and paralyzing worry caused by newscasts, I’m a stronger force for healing and love.
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Patricia Persante Reply:
March 16th, 2011 at 9:34 am
I have done the same thing, only starting when my 19 and 20 year old children were young. There was no need to have them or me or my husband pumped full of abuse, missing children and the evil in the world. Like you say, the big, important events will find you. My only exception is political news to know the issues but those I choose carefully. The strength that comes from not having that constant infusion is amazing. A great book on that subject is Amusing Ourselves to Death by Neil Postman. Incredible, illuminating commentary on this subject.
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Joy Reply:
March 16th, 2011 at 1:31 pm
Hooray for taking care of your soul!
I was raised with no conversation around the table as dinner and the news were served together.
I’m with you, Kimberly…for us sensitive types, a little media coverage goes a LONG way.
Take care of your sweet self.
And Christine….you so completely rock so much of the time with what you write, and thank you, thank you for stepping into your expanding self to serve us and the world.
Blessings,
Joy
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Shannon Terry Reply:
March 16th, 2011 at 10:59 pm
I do/did the exact same thing, Kimberly. I used to feel bad about it, almost irresponsible for not keeping up on the news, but no more. Like Christine’s post says, the best thing we can do to serve is to stay healthy and balanced ourselves first. I’m glad to read of others that are like me, though!
Friends call me if there’s a hurricane heading our way here in FL – they know I don’t watch the news
The best thing I’ve heard about Japan so far was on NPR today – an American father talking about how his son over there & his neighbors were getting by – sharing supplies, apartments, the son gave his apartment over to a group of women that were using his propane camping stove to cook for the people there with them all. Stories of how people come together & help each other, show courage, compassion, and community in the face of adversity – THOSE are the stories I am alert to and give my attention to
Blessings to all, everywhere –
Shannon
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Love this Christine! As always, your perspective is unique and refreshing. You make me think, feel and laugh. Thanks for reminding me there are many options for helping and healing…several options I’ve never considered in this light.
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Christine, this is beautiful. Thank you.
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Kelly Reply:
March 16th, 2011 at 4:08 am
Thank you so much. This is very helpful! <3
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A powerful post! Thank you!
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What a beautiful summary of Christine Wisdom : ) And thanks for taking a break from your “regularly scheduled program” to give space to the painful realities in Japan. I’m grateful for your example of honoring.
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Thank you again Christine for the inspirational post!
It reminded me of a greeting card that I have in a frame with the quote:
“Courage does not always roar. Courage is the small voice at the end of the day that says ‘I will try again tomorrow’”
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These posts make me kind of love you. My prayers are with everyone in Japan and all who live in fear.
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Christine, thank you for this eloquent, beautiful and positive message; and for highlighting how important our connected energy is in these situations…and that really whatever we intent or how we participate is valid.
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Wonderful post! Thank you. You never know how the little things we do in life can have a tremendous ripple effect.
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Hi Christine, Thank you so much for being such an inspiration to me and others on how we can make choices each day that create positive change in the world no matter how helpless we might feel like we are. I love you and respect you even more after your newsletter and blog post this week. Hugs to you!
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Thank you Christine!
Your words and wisdom are always welcome and speak volumes to me when I am in need of
uplift or direction for my day or my life. Going to hsare this with all I know.
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Great stuff my friend!
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Thank you for these thoughts, so simply and powerfully stated. Knowing our own power and owning it is the transforming issue. Feeling the gratitude and taking the time to focus on our light was a wonderful moment. For those who are in such change and distress, the forwarding of love can be the difference.
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Thanks Christine. I was feeling that unfocused, need to regroup aura about myself, more so today than previous days. Appreciate your words and thoughts. We are all doing the best we can to be scared and worried AND positive and move forward at the same time. Take good care!
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Excellent post, Christine. You combined a personal message that all readers can relate to and a big message about Japan.
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Christine,
This is exactly what I needed to hear today. So many around me are feeling helpless and sad. I truly believe that by taking care of ourselves and by heeding your fantastic! advice above, we will begin to make things better for all. Unfortunately, suffering is happening all the time. But so is JOY, INGENUITY, CELEBRATION and CREATIVITY. We do no good by choosing to live small and hang our heads in situations like these. We can help in so many ways (big and small), and this blog is a great reminder of all that we can do! Thank you so much. I will be sharing this blog with my friends, family, and greater community!
Lisa
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Christine, I’ve been getting and looking forward to your emails for quite awhile. What you have to say and how you say connects with me at a deep level. Today I am compelled to connect to you to thank you, to say “Amen Sister”, to say “namaste. Your words today regarding Japan are absolutely appropriate, speak truth and hit home. Thank you. Really.
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The lesson yesterday was Coose to Be Happy! As I read that I was listening to a conversation about the possible outcomes of Global Contamination from the nuclear situation in Japan. Fear was creeping in and I decided this was a powerful opportunity to instead of becoming paralyzed, direct myself forward in my life. I have been praying for all of us and I also focused on an action I wanted to take. It opened me to my next opportunity. It was a beautiful day. Love and light to you.
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Christine, Thank you so much for this powerful message it made me stop and think just how greatful I should be which to be honest at times I tend to forget you just gave me a reminder.Lets all take a moment to pray to be the best we can be and serve on another I am my brother & sisters keeper.
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Thank you, Christine, for the inspiration that is greatly needed in times of global pain.
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Thanks to everyone here for all of your amazing passionate comments and thoughts! I gave each of you a hug as I read down these beautiful thoughts!
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Thank you very much for this. And for your e-note this week.
I really appreciated what you said about everyone handling adversity in their own way. I forget that sometimes when other people’s responses look very different from my own. It was a really good reminder for me that everyone is doing the best that they can.
~Erin
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I smiled knowingly when Caren said, “These posts make me kind of love you.” Your soul is wide open, sister, and that’s what happens when one voice begins singing. A wind of compassion blows through the whole world. Thank you for offering hope and action when nuclear, earthquake, and tsunami news threatens to overwhelm.
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Thanks Christine! What a beautiful, fabulous piece! My work colleagues and I were discussing passion, giving, thanks, and also the many lives affected in Japan. We do each handle it differently and I realize that my small challenges were insignificant compared to some of the events happening right now. It has been challenging here in Wisconsin but we have banded together and have passion for what we believe in and our intention will prevail. Now our prayers and intentions go out to the people in Japan. Peace, love and light.
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I too had to stop reading/watching etc anything related to the Japanese disaster, that’s just too difficult to deal with for this creative highly sensitive soul. Love this blog entry and also your newsletter topic of yesterday on our interconnectedness. It is a coincidence for sure — I wrote a poem that has this interconnectedness theme running through it for a http://www.poetrysoup.com contest:) I would like to share this, hope you don’t mind…
Kwe’
Ethereal music primordial
lured me down a winding path, gently
lit by the golden glow of the full moon:
followed the music till I found the source.
There sat a handsome brave sitting beneath
an ancient oak tree playing a reed flute,
with long fingers nimble and quick – master.
Rugged features and sun bronzed skin – black locks
flowed over broad shoulders falling onto
his tanned bare chest – he wore deer hide trousers
and moccasins too; a surreal vision.
A nod of his head acknowledged my presence
though he continued playing some sweet tune.
Owl and coyote joined in, their hoots and
howls made an odd duet yet in perfect
harmony as Nature orchestrated.
Song finished, he rose, and said Kwe’, my name
means hello in my language and then he laughed,
Mother said Kwe’ first time she held me.
Kwe’ explained he’s an elder, teaches the
ways of his people from their hearts – stories
and songs; spiritual rituals link
us all – we are all connected, beasts too.
Dedicate songs played to our ancestors,
their wisdom and knowledge has been passed on
from generation to generation.
Kwe’ swept arms wide as if embracing all
Nature, “here Spirit resides, we believe.
here for reflection and observation –
meditate on interconnectedness.”
Kwe’ picked up his flute, resumed playing tunes –
owl and coyote hooted and howled then
other forest creatures added their songs
creating a symphony of diverse
voices in unison – inter connect.
It shows all creatures on the planet are interconnected…
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‘One of the women said: “I feel so helpless.”
Understandable, of course. But not true.’
Nope, that IS true, because she’s referring to her FEELING helpless. And acknowledging our feelings, being true to them without denying them, that forms an important part of authenticity, and that is something you teach people, too. Which I LOVE!
BEING helpless? No, that isn’t true, for sure, just as you say. Lovely, uplifting post, Christine, and I thought the distinction important that FEELING helpless is never the same as BEING helpless, mainly because we are never as helpless or lonely or depressed or [...] as we feel. Acknowledging those feelings is the first step towards sitting down and saying, ‘Oh really? Am I really helpless?’ And then taking action!
Light to you!
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Christine,
You are such a genuine, compassionate person! Probably why I chose you for my first Tele-Summit in December. Great post and glad I took the time to read it…even though it brought tears to my eyes for the 20th time this week due to the ache in my heart for all of those amazingly brilliant, honorable and graceful citizens of Japan. Their culture is one of the most intriguing I’ve ever known.
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I thought Christine’s readers would like to read an article about positive events and even a bit of serendipity going on in Japan, too:
http://www.odemagazine.com/blogs/readers_blog/24805/a_spirit_of_endurance_in_japan
Namaste–
Shannon
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Shannon Terry Reply:
March 17th, 2011 at 9:39 pm
“Shigata ga nai” is a Japanese expression that roughly translated means, “It cannot be helped.” It also implies a sense of enduring what is happening and of making the best of whatever situation you are in. That concept is an integral part of everyday life here, not only now, but always.”
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Thank you for reminding me about stepping away from the media and that there are other important ways of connecting and healing. Our world is such a small place and we are all connected.
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Christine, I really love this blog and I know the inspiration for these words came from within. I took the minute to send the healing energy and tears welled up due to love. We are truly connected. You’re right that no one can do it alone.
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Christine, I love your blog. I really felt something powerful when I read it. I recently started a blog of my own about the Law of Attraction and Gratitude with a little humor, music, and pop culture added in. Please come visit me at http://close2bliss.wordpress.com.
Thanks for visiting soon!!
Much Love!!
Lori Hamilton
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Dear Christine
I found your blog by my request on google “what can I do to heal the planet”. Reading your blog then all the replies I asked myself where are all the men?! Then read properly your heading to the Website ” Mentor to Women changing the world” ah.. so that explains it.
I found your words energizing and helpful. Thankyou.
Blessings on your work.
Paul
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Christine Kane Reply:
June 20th, 2011 at 2:06 pm
Thanks Paul!
Of course, I do work with men – and most of them are like you: they are the rare men who are wanting to heal the planet!
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